So basically, My ex said he doesn't like me anymore and rn he wants distance for a bit, for like a week of something. I honestly want to become the best version of myself, I want to have goals...But I'm still hoping that maybe after a while he will fall in love again and maybe we'll be able to get back together. Maybe with time I will get bored and I will be healed so I will stop wanting him.. I really love him rn and I cant do what I like for no reason. But yes he told me he would distance himself so we can't play together this week. I know I should move on but I can't.
Last updated on:2026-06-15T01:34:23+05:30
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when he said he doesn't like you anymore, did he leave any room for working on things later, or was the week of distance something he asked for without talking about the future at all?
He asked for distance without talking about the future. My friend told me it could still be possible but for that I need to prove that I needed to stop assuming and being jealous + overthinking and then maybe he could see a possibility (yes we broke up but thats how I am and I know its bad.)
If he told you he doesn’t like you anymore, take his word for it and treat yourself with the kindness and love you would have given to him. If he likes you healed and he gives you what you need when you are in that good place it’s different, but to keep the door open when he tells you he doesn’t like you.. it’s hard to heal around that type of energy.
The thing is, I know he liked my energy before so yk I really wanna change for myself and if he comes back bc he likes my energy and wants to try again, its a win win
focusing on becoming the person i wanted to be for ME, not for the chance that he'd fall in love again. i couldn't control his feelings, but i could give myself something to look forward to each day.
I want to become someone better for me. But I cant help but think me and him can work out even if its in 4months
Don't wait around for a text treat this time as your own fresh start, becoming your best self should be for you, not to win him back & lastly if someone needs space to value you, give them that space permanently. ❤️
I know but I love him and I'm so sad he lost feelings:(
@Inotnoya I'm sorry I so wish you feel better soon and forget about him love
@zarajewel I hope I will feel better soon and I hope my feelings will be gone soon too. I can't with me thinking he will come back when he clearly doesn't want to :(
my ex asked for "a little space" too, and i spent that whole time hoping he'd come back different. the waiting hurt almost as much as the breakup because my life felt stuck while he figured out what he wanted
Yep the waiting hurts. And I know he lost feelings but I know he still cares about me. what is horrible is that I can't move on
I respect his decision but I still hope he might fall in love again if I become the best version of myself 💔