Why am i so confused after my breakup?

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It's been 8days that I've break up with my ex,today I just think about him,I miss him so much but I'm so confused I want him back and also I think about how he treated me in the past and I just want to forget but still really hard.
He want to breakup with me first and I do whatever to fix our relationship but this one I think I just need peace and let go.
I feel like I just want him to regret the way he treated me the last 7 months.
He didn't block me and that's hurt,he didn't even apologize for how he treated me.

Last updated on:2026-04-28T15:32:14+05:30

Comments (10)

LoCCha
LoCCha yesterday

you miss him, or the way you hoped things would finally turn out between you two?

Ghost383
Ghost383 yesterday

I think I'm really disappointed that we ended like that , it's hard when he never choose me over everyone or everything
It's hard how he can change for another person but not for me

stillsad
stillsad 2 days ago

was in that same place, missing him like crazy but also replaying all the ways he hurt me. when love and pain sit in the same person like that. i remember wanting him to regret it too, like REALLY regret it.

Ghost383
Ghost383 yesterday

Exactly, that's make the situation really hard it's difficult to move on
You always replay everything in your head, how he treated you ,how he live his live without thinking about how he treated you

Carvajal
Carvajal 2 days ago

I know how it feels. I've been through the exact same thing. Wanting to detach myself from someone who clearly didn't deserve what I was giving them.

Ghost383
Ghost383 2 days ago

And now ?
It will last for how long ?it's really hurt, I search so many solutions that I can to detach and maybe to hate this person

Carvajal
Carvajal 2 days ago

@Ghost383 It will last as long as it needs to, and it depends on how hard you try to break the habit you've formed. The idea isn't to hate the person, but to get over them, to live without any feelings of hate or love towards that person.
I won't deny it, it will be slow; I'm still in that process myself, but I understand that instead of suffering with that person, it's better to suffer without them, in order to recover what was lost through so much wear and tear in the relationship.

Ghost383
Ghost383 2 days ago

@Carvajal Thank you so much for your advice, I break no contact yesterday and now I really regret it, I will apply your advice and try to accept the situation even it's really hard.
Thank you

CozySpirit349
CozySpirit349 2 days ago

it is really hard. I decided to go no contact today after on an off weirdness situation.

Ghost383
Ghost383 2 days ago

It's been how long now ?