He broke up with me because he felt overwhelmed by the little things that had been building up and felt like the relationship was becoming draining for him.
The same day he broke up with me he started snapping people and adding girls on instagram. he said: “ i hope this doesn’t affect us in the future of wanting to be a thing again because i enjoy being with you. I just want the best for you to be better then yesterday you, i believe you can do it i have tired my best but hope this helps you understand how much i want you to be happy with yourself and the best version of yourself.”
Last updated on:2026-08-23T20:32:36+05:30
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just try to keep yourself busy by going to gym and don’t think about him to much
i'd take his words seriously without turning them into a promise. he said he enjoys being with you and hopes things could work someday, but he also chose to end it because the relationship felt draining, and that part needs to be respected too.
As someone who did want to break up with my ex because i felt overwhelmed, i told her upfront what i was struggling would so we could work on them together. and that effort was enough for me. she on the other hand let resentment build up and said it all in the end and replaced me in 1 week.
I'm just left in a terrible state now. i couldn't imagine adding girls let alone being with a someone else so soon. i know everyone copes differently. but there's 100% an element of carelessness here.
i mean he would always try to help me with my personal life but he wouldn’t see action he said: “i’m not talking about only yesterday i’m talking about all the situations that u put me though it’s so draining i feel like im a parent to u from how how much i have to take care of you, no job no license no car no money. You are really mature in a relationship but you as a person not so much from how much i try to help you with your overthinking. it scares me how much you wouldn’t help me if we were to get old and try to even live together. i been trying to help you with everything but it never works out from getting a job and all the advice i tell you to be better in life. I’m honestly not sure if we can continue as a couple, i been trying to fight this feeling but you made me pull it out of me…
i keep wondering about the “little things” he said were building up. did he ever actually tell you what those things were while you were together, or did you only hear about them once he was already done?
He would tell me ,and I told him i’d improve but it’s not something that would happen overnight. But i guess he never believed in me and decided to break up my first week of college..
i've been there, getting a breakup speech about needing space and then seeing my ex immediately adding new girls. i spent so much time trying to figure out what those actions meant when i was already hurting enough
I hear it through vc but no actions and effort at all
Honestly it’s not that they want space.. it’s just they wanna have that space to be single. And that’s what a avoidant does.
this hoe bro listen he does not deserve you honestly my ex did something simular he doesn't care about you find someone wayy better