Why do i still care after he messaged me?

He messaged me last night asking hey and if I'm up, but two days ago, his gf was posting him all over her ig. He says they broke up. I'm on day 3 and looking for some motivation to keep going.

Last updated on:2026-08-24T04:55:32+05:30

Comments (7)

Cupid
Cupid 3 mins ago

If he really cares and if he is really able to choose you and come back to you without being toxic, then let him do something more than an online message

Foxwins
Foxwins 51 mins ago

i'd leave that message unanswered for now.

TimeEater2
TimeEater2 11 hrs ago

he messaged you, did it make you want him back, or did it mostly make you feel like maybe you hadn't been forgotten?

Hearteyedgirl101

The first one. It made me want him back.

Rwindcasete
Rwindcasete 13 hrs ago

being on day 3 and having one random message from my ex completely wreck my progress. seeing him with someone else and then getting a “hey, you up?”

Hearteyedgirl101

Yup.

HappyBliss766
HappyBliss766 16 hrs ago

I’m in a similar situation trust me going back would only make you feel worst. Based on my experience I suggest you to not text him back. Days later you will not regret it trust me