the first 24 hours felt SO long for me too. i kept reaching for my phone to text him, then remembering i couldn't anymore. that silence hurts like hell
i wanted to break no contact just to make the ache stop for a few minutes. honestly, i started taking it one hour at a time because thinking about forever felt impossible.
The first day is always the hardest. On the first day I was like, am I going to make it? It really felt impossible to the point where I wanted to reach out even though my last messages had been ignored.
But I told myself I wasn't going to worry about what would happen in the next few weeks or months. I was just going to take it one day at a time.
After three days, it was starting to get better. But look at me now. In the next few hours, I will reach three weeks and when I finally reach a month, I'm going to celebrate babe because mmm I went through HELL.ðŸ˜
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the first 24 hours felt SO long for me too. i kept reaching for my phone to text him, then remembering i couldn't anymore. that silence hurts like hell
i wanted to break no contact just to make the ache stop for a few minutes. honestly, i started taking it one hour at a time because thinking about forever felt impossible.
what's been the hardest part of these first 24 hours for you, missing them, wanting to text them, or wondering if they miss you too?
will shall be well
All in all, it gets better. Just give yourself some time. You will be fine and you will get through this. Sending you lots of strength. 💪
The first day is always the hardest. On the first day I was like, am I going to make it? It really felt impossible to the point where I wanted to reach out even though my last messages had been ignored.
But I told myself I wasn't going to worry about what would happen in the next few weeks or months. I was just going to take it one day at a time.
After three days, it was starting to get better. But look at me now. In the next few hours, I will reach three weeks and when I finally reach a month, I'm going to celebrate babe because mmm I went through HELL.ðŸ˜
same here, I check my phone constantly. arghhhhh
Keep going
in reality, it’s gonna suck for a while. but eventually you’ll find your footing again, trust me 🙂