I was up all night writing a text to send to him. I was so close to send it but I’m glad I didn’t… when does the urge stop?
Last updated on:2026-10-17T01:38:11+05:30
Why i almost texted him again
I was up all night writing a text to send to him. I was so close to send it but I’m glad I didn’t… when does the urge stop?
Last updated on:2026-10-17T01:38:11+05:30
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rewriting the same text at 3am and convincing myself that maybe this time he'd finally understand. i'm proud of you for not sending it, i know how HARD that urge can hit when you miss someone
honestly, for me, the urge faded little by little, but it came in waves at first. whenever i wanted to text him, i'd write it in my notes and leave it there overnight instead of sending it.
I text myself when I have the urge to do so.. not the same but still better than texting him.
when will i stop wanting to reach out? can i ask, when the urge hits you, is it more because you miss him or because there's still something you wish he'd understand
maybe consider writing in a journal of the texts or things you would send him. help self-reflect before actually sending