I won't lie, I still think about him. But something has changed. I'm not constantly checking, I'm not reaching out, and I'm not trying to force anything to happen.I've had moments where I wanted to know what he's doing or wondered if he'll come back, but I've also had moments where I genuinely just got on with my day.Maybe healing isn't about suddenly forgetting someone. Maybe it's just slowly getting your life back without them being at the center of it.
Last updated on:2026-08-24T00:45:22+05:30
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i really like what you said about getting on with your day. do you feel like those moments are happening more often now, where you're genuinely enjoying something before remembering he's gone?
Yesss I think they are 😭 I still think about him but not every second like before.I’m slowly getting back to myself
around two weeks into no contact, i had this weird moment where i realized i’d gone half a day without wondering what my ex was doing. it felt tiny, but damn, i knew something in me had shifted.
Exactlyyy 😭 it’s such a small thing but you actually notice it. Then you realize damn, I really went hours without thinking about them 😂
you're slowly getting back on track. congratulations 👏
Thank youu 🥹❤️ honestly I’m trying, slowly but surely.
I feel the same way to girl, sometimes he cross my mind listening to sad song make me cry, i think detox is really painful but always remember you're not alone we are a community here, feel free to express what you feel on our chat room❤️
Girl 😭 sad songs during no contact are dangerousss.But fr it helps knowing other people understand what you’re going through ❤️
I agree with this and love this. So proud of you. You got this. I believe in you.
Thankyou gaaal❤️