Why did he lie about cheating?
My ex and I broke up after he told me he had cheated. I believed him, walked away, and we didn't speak for weeks. Recently, we started talking again, and during a long phone call, he told me something
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What happened when i reached out after no contact
After 52 days of no contact, I finally broke it. I reached out because there was something important he needed to know. I honestly didn't know if he would respond, but he did. And somehow, we ended up
Why missing you doesn't mean i should reach out
Sometimes you can really miss someone and still know reaching out isn't what you need. Healing is learning that you don't have to act on every feeling you have.
What comes after a breakup?
I'm at that weird stage where I don't know exactly what's next, but I'm not as scared of it anymore. And honestly, that's enough for now.
When your heart and mind don't agree: a personal struggle
What do you do when your heart wants something your mind knows isn’t good for you?
Why missing someone doesn't mean you should go back
Sometimes you can still miss someone and know you shouldn't go back. Missing them doesn't erase how they treated you. And choosing yourself doesn't mean you stopped caring. It just means you finally s
How 30 days changed my perspective on healing
30 days 🥹I’m actually really proud of myself. The beginning was hard, but lately I’ve been feeling so much better and life just feels lighter. If you’re going through it right now, keep going
Should i wish my ex a happy birthday after the breakup?
My ex’s birthday is coming up.After everything he did, would you wish him a happy birthday or just leave it alone? I genuinely don’t know what’s the right thing to do.
Why i'm finally just living after my breakup
Funny how time changes things. A few weeks ago I was overthinking everything and now I’m just here .. Not angry, not waiting, not trying to figure anything out. Just living.
Am i healing or just hoping?
If you're doing no contact and slowly feeling better,but you still secretly hope they come back, are you actually healing?
Surviving 14 days after a breakup: i didn't think i'd make it
I honestly didn't think I'd make it this far. The first few days were hard. I wanted to check, I wanted answers, and obviously I wanted to hear from them. But somehow I made it to 14 days. If you're o
Am i moving on? 11 days after the breakup
I won't lie, I still think about him. But something has changed. I'm not constantly checking, I'm not reaching out, and I'm not trying to force anything to happen.I've had moments where I wanted to kn
How i learned to choose myself after 7 days
7 days ago I honestly didn't think I'd make it this far. I was checking, overthinking, missing him and wanting to reach out. Now I'm learning that I can miss someone and still choose myself. I'm proud
Why no contact is the best choice after a breakup
It's about giving yourself enough distance to stop chasing answers, stop checking and finally hear your own thoughts again. If they miss you they'll feel that on their own. And if they don't, you'll s
Why did he move on so fast after our breakup?
I'm on day 2 of no contact, and honestly, I'm still trying to understand how someone I shared so much with could move on so quickly. We were together for a few months, but thos months were intense. We
How losing him helped me find myself again
I used to think losing someone meant losing a part of myself.I replayed the memories questioned what I could've done differently and wondered how someone I loved could hurt me so deeply.But I'm slowly
When you realize you asked the wrong person
One day,you'll realize you weren't asking for too much.You were just asking the wrong person to give you what they weren't capable of giving......And that realization hurts......but it also sets you f
Finding peace after a breakup: letting go of the chase
Sometimes you don't stop caring about someone. You just stop trying to force something that doesn't feel the same anymore. And honestly, there's a certain peace that comes when you stop chasing explan
What i wish i could tell you about us
What's something you wish you could say to the person who hurt you, but never got the chance to? You don't have to send it to them.......just say it here. ME:I wish you had loved me the way I loved yo
Why letting go feels like a weight lifted
I won’t lie, I cried a lot. Yesterday felt heavy, but today I woke up after sleeping like a baby and realized,I’m okay Maybe it’s relief. Maybe it’s acceptance. Maybe it’s the beginning of h
Why am i still crying after my breakup?
My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday I jus' find myself crying feeling numb I don't know if it'll get better I jus' want to feel better