I'm on day 2 of no contact, and honestly, I'm still trying to understand how someone I shared so much with could move on so quickly.
We were together for a few months, but thos months were intense. We made so many memories, went places together and I genuinely thought we were building something real.
Then we broke up, and that same month he found someone else. He also admitted to me that he cheated. He told me he didn't want to hurt me and that I deserved someone better.
He was good to me.......... untill he wasn't.....he told me that if he tells me the truth we should break up
And I think that's what hurts the most. How can someone who once meant so much to you suddenly become someone you don't even recognize?
I'm trying to let go, but some days I still wonder......did it ever mean as much to him as it did to me?
Last updated on:2026-08-15T20:50:42+05:30
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thank you 😊 honestly I’m having good days and bad days, but I’m getting there slowly ❤️
finding out my ex had moved on while i was still replaying every memory we had, and that question of “did it mean as much to them?” absolutely wrecked me
I guess we’ll never really know what was in their head,but I’m trying to accept that what it meant to me was still real, even if they handled the ending differently
the cheating made the whole thing so much harder to make sense of.
when he said he didn't want to hurt you, did part of you still hope the truth would somehow bring you both back together?
A part of me did,But now I'm realizing that sometimes the truth isn't meant to bring you back together, it's meant to help you finally let go.
I feel atleast you got some sort of closure or enough information not to question yourself anymore why with him now he has admitted to those things.
In a way,I did get some closure because he admitted what happened and that helped me stop questioning whether I was imagining things or if I somehow wasn't enough.
for someone to find someone so quick they already had them in the pipe line. I feel for your emptiness right now, I am on day 2, sometimes you have to let them find out what life is without you. I’m also struggling with the fact of feeling like I loved them more than they loved me but everything is temporary some stay longer than others, but accepting everyone leaves one day is helping me recover and the comfort I have knowing I cannot be angry at who he chooses to be with and embrace who I will come across x
Honestly,I feel you so much.I really like what you said about letting them experience life without you. Maybe that's part of letting go too.....not being angry at who they choose, but accepting that we deserve to find our own people too.....I hope we both get through this