yeah,i did a huge mistake believing he would change,he is good with word so i fell...but it was just to use my body (to me it makes sense) and now i feel disgusted with myself for being so dumb,any advices?
Last updated on:2026-08-26T06:12:38+05:30
Why did i believe he would change?
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It's not your fault. Please don't be so hard on yourself. I kinda feel the same way as you do... but trust me, THEY KNEW our feelings for them, and even tho THEY DECIDE to take advantage from us. They are to blame. Not you, not me. Be kind to yourself ❤️
please don't make yourself carry the blame for his choices. i had to stop asking myself why i was “dumb” and start asking whether he treated me with the care i deserved, because that answer told me a lot.
you feel disgusted because of what he actually did to you, or because you're blaming yourself for trusting him?
both,but principally because i let him touch me
believing someone's words because i wanted so badly for them to be true. when the actions finally showed me what was really happening, i felt so stupid for trusting him, and that shame hurt almost as much as the breakup.
You're not dumb to hope he'd change. He probably told you everything you wanna hear. They all do that. Then after a few months, there back to their old shit. It's sad. It's fucked up. There all in it together. They'll only change if we as women give consequences to their behavior. Start being a bitch. Date yourself. Focus on empowering yourself. Enjoy your own company. Your success will be your revenge. He'll never see it coming. You got this girl!
ty so much!