I've been no contact with my cheating ex for 200 days now and I still find it want to text him especially after a bad day, or just to hear him say I love you one more time and it hurts. when does the hurt stop hurting
Last updated on:2026-04-27T16:48:43+05:30
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is this the first time u have gon NC with that person? im almost at 199 days myself, but this is my 6th attempt and i feel the final attempt, i can not keep going back into that trap of repeated patterns of hurt and false promises, i even divorced him without his permission, i poured all that love into myself instead, i mean his still stalking me but im not going back to that ever again
when you want to text him, is it more about missing HIM or missing how he made you feel in those moments
yeah i swear why it's so easy for me to forgive him
i mean one "i love you" from him can fix my fucking heart
i was months into no contact too and still reaching for my phone on bad days like my body forgot he wasn’t safe for me. that “just one more i love you” feeling used to wreck me
when your addiction to him stops. their are just like drugs. your in withdrawal. take time for yourself.
You are in the thick of it. Healing takes time, more time than you'd expect. Love to you <3 You are enough without this person. You deserve love without infidelity and lies.
thank you im just going through a rough spot and want to text him so bad
It's totally okay, wanting to still text him. You have come this far, I am proud of you! Keep focusing on your heal and yourself don't break your progress really, you came this far for a reason. It will stop hurting enventually, as much as it does now.
thank you and I am for the most part taking care of myself I just hope the hurt stops soon I cant take it anymore 😔
@HexiWave815 We are all here for you! You doing an amazing job, lots of love for you 🩷🩷