I can't take things like this, it's fcuking my brain out. I was in a relationship with her for 4 years, she left me out of nowhere, and left me for someone else. It has wrecked my heart into pieces, cause i thought she was the one.
I did everything for her, was there for her in her darkest of times, and she just leaves me like that.
I was really good in my studies , I was class topper of my college batch,I was doing really fine after i fell in love with her. I didn't know how can someone leave 4 years of sh*t we went through together, that involves everything sexually, physically, mentally, emotionally , everything.
And now i lost everything it feels like it. I lost momentum, i lost confidence, i lost relationship, love, job , and now I'm behind in career it feels like seeing my peers moving forward and they don't have to deal with what I went through for the last 9 months.
And yes I'm ready to leave all that behind, but here's what fucks me up , everytime I'm focusing,her thought comes in my mind with someone else. And nights are the worst ( you know what i mean), I'm not being possessive but it's like i had things with her and now she can just easily give to someone else, can easily cheat on me.
H*ll i didn't approached other womens when i was with her, not even as a friend, because i respected her, loved her too much .
Too much can be harmful.
Please help me with these feelings of her with someone else, i beg you to help me stop this, the withdrawals and imagination, no matter I try to stop it doesn't and it's pure agony sitting right there on my chest!?
Last updated on:2026-04-26T05:20:05+05:30
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man this is brutal, i won’t lie
when those thoughts hit you at night, do you try to fight them or do you just sit there with them hoping they’ll pass
I don't know it's just I feel sad and replaced and humiliated. That's what i feel
I know it's hurt but let her go.
One day,she will remember you and everything you do for her,but now,just try to move on even if it's not easy.
I repeted,one day she will remember everything you do for her,she will regret.
That's the happening always when you are finally healing and move on.
she's not coming back, why would she remember me, she cheated, she doesn't the guts to show her face to me, and to be honest, I'm not the type of guy who hits women (my mother has taught me how to deal with this), but if she comes around i might hit a jab on her really. I don't care.
I don't want her, I don't need her to remember me but it's the thought of her with someone else is what bothers me.
but thank you so much for providing some comfort , 😊💖
i was with someone too and she left like it meant nothing, and those thoughts of her with someone else would just loop in my head at night. it made me feel sick and small, like everything we had got erased
how did you cope up with it, can you give any advice, anything? and I'm sorry what what you went through too, I know it hurts ,i can tell you exactly what you're going through.
She'll probably do it to him too. good riddance