at this point their return would not be in my best interest, because i am not healed yet, and may make the wrong decisions just because I want the pain to stop
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Last updated on:2026-04-26T19:57:36+05:30
at this point their return would not be in my best interest, because i am not healed yet, and may make the wrong decisions just because I want the pain to stop
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Last updated on:2026-04-26T19:57:36+05:30
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It's not worth it friend choose yourself it does get better.
I highly resonate with you
you’d want them back because you miss THEM, or because you just want the pain to ease right now?
both
thanks everyone
I completely agree.As bad as I want him back…I still have alot of healing to do. With healing comes confidence.
i had to stay away until i could sit with the pain without reaching for her, that was the only thing that kept me from repeating the same cycle again
i’ve been in that place where i would’ve taken them back just to make the ache stop, even knowing deep down i wasn’t ready. i remember how easy it is to confuse relief with healing, and it cost me more time than i want to admit
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
it shows growth that you understand these things!!! you are doing amazing!!