Why does it hurt so much seeing him move on?

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the other day he started hitting up another girl. that girl supposedly being my friends friend. she has a boyfriend and he didn’t know it at the time, and he was giving her his undivided attention that he never gave me. it hurts because while i was waiting for him, my heart aching and yearning for him to come back while he was infatuated on another girl

Last updated on:2026-03-15T07:00:05+05:30

Comments (7)

TearStained
TearStained a mth ago

that part where you said he gave her attention he never gave you… yeah that one hurts. do you feel like he always held back with you, even before the breakup?

PetlovDD
PetlovDD a mth ago

i’m gonna be real, i had to stop keeping tabs on who my ex was talking to. every new name or rumor just reopened the wound for me. muting everything was the only thing that gave my brain a little quiet.

travelluv
travelluv a mth ago

i waited for my ex too while he was already chasing someone else and it felt like my chest was getting crushed every time i heard about it. that feeling of waiting while they move on so fast is brutal

NovaWave601
NovaWave601 a mth ago

I relate! my spouse had limerence with a friend I wasn’t supposed to worry about LOL they are together now.

EmmaDilemma
EmmaDilemma a mth ago

I'm in the same boat
only found out he had someone else as he text me by mistake when he meant to text her

BlazeTap548
BlazeTap548 a mth ago

i get this...it feels like what you had meant more to you than it did to them but i guess everything happens for a reason...

ChillX346
ChillX346 a mth ago

I completely understand the feeling and how you wonder how can they move on so fast while youre still thinking about them ...