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I just got out in an abusive 3 year relationship. He was my first boyfriend. At first everything was fine, he's sweet and gave me gifts but like they always say "nothing last forever". He is manipulat

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I've been working on my issues since the relationship ended almost a month ago. I have made several breakthroughs in therapy, and looking back, I'm ashamed at how little self-awareness and emotional m

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I’m stuck. I have this “hope” that I don’t want anymore. my brain knows he won’t come back but heart is having a hard time letting go. my heart feels like there even a small chance he’ll c

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its currently 1am... for context, my bsf and a few of my other close friends works for / under him. one of my bsf told messaged me today saying that she was speaking to him today and he was saying wit

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I don't know what to do. we go to the same school and I see her at lunch, I've tried going different routes to my class and leaving earlier at lunch but, I still end up seeing her and moving isn't an

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My narcissitisc ex boyfriend of 2.5 years ended our relationsship in August. We had some contact after this where i was bringing back his books and other stuff. He wrote me a message 42 days ago about

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49 days since I last checked his socials, almost 6 months since our breakup. I no longer feel hurt or mad or disappointed. I found my peace, I keep working on my self-esteem and my inner validation sk

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I've made it to day 25 but its still no easier than days 1! not a moment goes by im not thinking about my ex thats whether they're with someone else again, whether thats hoping theyre working on thems

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we ended on good terms but when he comes to grab his stuff tomorrow do i write a letter/go in for a hug? we also said the door is open for future us

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I'm dying inside 😭 I miss him I'm really broken from inside it has been 45 days of no contact I can't even cry because of family members are around I'm really feeling low 😭 tomorrow is my exam p

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May God give me a serious intentional man who GENUINELY loves me Amen

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Smh my streak for no contact is ruined. Because 23 days ago he ghosted me. Leave me on seen and then suddenly yesterday he said "Sorry I didn't realised your text". AFTER 23 DAYS??? EXCUSE ME??? I o

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Long story short, my avoidant ghosted me after a year of talking daily. We are long distance and never really had issues, apart from him starting the push-pull thing 6 months in. I have been wracking

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I want to date

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i’m about to set off to go to the place i was meant to meet him today for our aniversary and i feel so sick , i feel like im gonna cry . Im meeting my bsf there instead of him but i was so excited t

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I just wanna ask him if he wants to catch up for a coffee or walk just to talk. Because I still at the back of my mind have hope we will try again and also want clarity on the reason for the breakup.

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I wonder what she is up to 😭 She was my best friend, my only friend, my closest friend 💔

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maybe some day I'll be genuinely loved by a man

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we’ve been on no contact for 2 days now, my birthday is in a week and he requested that he sees me on the day to drop off a gift he already got me before we went no contact, should I let him?☹️

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I see so many heart breaking stories here, but we should also start posting when we are Healing.... I am now on 45 days no contact...and the first few days.. I felt I was almost gonna die... it was s

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15 days NC. Its growing with time, even though i fell to my bed and cried again since I did the break up. Cant believe it. I did not want to. It was 7 months, not that long, but, for me, it was the

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it’s only been 45 days and I almost went on a date with another guy. I chickened out of course. why do I feel guilty and weird about potentially going out with someone???

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im starting to forget him now, but i really don't want to. i know there's no chance for us, but letting go is the hardest thing ever and i don't think I'm ready for that yet. i want to remember the

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I began talking to other people, I created a new routine for my life, I weathered 3 holidays now without him and I have had my eye on a goal for better financial health but leave it to the quiet momen

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We r in same college. Even after breakup we were in contact and he lied that he already had a new girl. I always wanted his validation and soo dependent on him . I'm scared to block him . What to do

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I don't want him anymore. But i can't see him with someone new. After breakup also we stayed in contact for months and I suddenly got to know he has a girlfriend . Even after breakup he was lying to m

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he unfollowed me and removed me on everything today i think were finally done.

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Broken up 3 weeks 💔 6 days no contact, he started the no contact without speaking with me. Last time I saw him he said see you around. I don't know what to do this is the worst I've felt so far. I

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I've made it to day 22 and im still struggling now as much as I was on day 1! im still crying every day, still checking to see if there's another new girl again! we had been together for 2 years and t

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So we've been talking again and meeting in person even though we've both been busy with college. It's been great, but I'm not really sure if this is going to work the way I want it to. After she went

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