Four months ago my ex broke up with me and it still haunts me. He called me on FaceTime and I could already see on his face that its the end and he will break up. He ask me if I would be home and drove to my place. He lived two hours away so all I could do is wait for him to break up with me. When he arrived he kissed me on my mouth and hugged me. He told me that he love me but not as much as I loved him. we cried together. He said that he wish he could gave me the love I need. I don’t understand this all til today and I’m really broken inside. I just wish he would have gave me a reason to be mad or we would had a bad ending of our relationship but this just broke me. I don’t know why I’m writing this here I guess I just want to talk with someone about it.
Stay safe you all and be strong !
Last updated on:2026-03-20T21:14:03+05:30
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you feel like you’re still replaying that last moment with him, like trying to find something you missed
it means simply he started being unattracted by you, and a serious future together started feeling like a burden. often its not even about you. many guys get cold feet after the honeymoon phase ends because the chase is over, you're comfortably his now and so youre not a source of dopamine anymore but a moral duty. and then their minds starts scanning for and highlighting or inventing flaws and telling him "better not get attached to this for life"..
i know that kind of ending leaves you stuck, i had to stop searching for a reason that would make it make sense.
my ex ended things in that same soft way, still hugging me, still saying he cared, and it messed me up more than if he had just been cold. i kept wishing he’d done something wrong so i could be angry instead of just… sad.
I can totally relate. my ex broke up saying I love you and I know you love me but I think I'm meant to be single. what does that even mean? if we live each other isnt that earth fighting for?
I wish I could alleviate your pain. I can only tell you to work on yourself snd try to stop thinking about him 24/7. try only giving yourself 15 minutes a day and then every time you think of him remind yourself you used that time already.
I wish you peace and if you ever need to talk i'm here ❤️