Me and my ex broke up almost a month ago now. We had an amazing relationship really like best friends enjoying life together but long distance for 1.5 years while I finished school was hard.
He went on a date with someone because he had doubts about our relationship trying to figure out if he I or the relationship was the problem. After that he told me I was the one for him but I found out and everything exploded. He seemed remorseful wanted to fix things but it felt driven by fear.
We took some time apart to think. I considered giving him a second chance because our relationship was mostly great full of love and respect. But after multiple talks he admitted he still had doubts and eventually decided he couldn’t continue. I told him I can’t be with someone who can’t choose me and we parted ways.
A week ago I reached out wanting to talk and he said he’d respond later. Yesterday he told me our relationship was meaningful but it’s really over and he doesn’t think meeting would help. I feel he’s refusing to give closure and might still be convincing himself which feels a bit selfish. I think I reached out too early for his emotions but I’ll process this in my own time.
Last updated on:2026-03-31T15:04:03+05:30
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hi you feel like you were looking for closure from him, or hoping he’d change his mind if you talked again?
i gave a second chance to someone who “had doubts” too, and it just kept me stuck in that maybe loop. when someone isn’t sure, it slowly breaks you even if the love was real.