Why does losing my big love hurt so much?

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I miss her so much. it hurts so badly. all the little things she used to do, her little her-isms that only she did. the things that were OUR things. I feel so devastated that she walked away and even more devastated that I can’t even blame her for it because of how hard things got between us and that THIS, the separation, had to be the best thing, even though I would’ve went back a thousand times. please tell me it gets better.

Last updated on:2026-04-08T06:39:14+05:30

Comments (6)

manicfaedreamgoblin

very much have been there. my ex and I were together 4 years. I knew her so well. I thought she was my person. It does get easier. I used to be afraid of being abandoned by my partner or that I won't find someone who wants to stay with me. Now that some of my worst fears were realized and I'm still here i realized that what I'm more afraid of than being abandoned by someone else is abandoning myself again.

EmptyEcho
EmptyEcho 2 wks ago

what’s the one thing about her you keep replaying the most right now?

healing
healing 2 wks ago

how she would look at me; her eyes

RimiVough
RimiVough 2 wks ago

man, this kind of hurt is brutal😢

Joocey00
Joocey00 2 wks ago

i feel this so deep… those little “her-isms” are the hardest part, it’s like the world still has her shape in it but she’s gone. i went through that too, i would’ve gone back a thousand times even knowing it would break me again.

healing
healing 2 wks ago

it’s like the world still has her shape even though she’s gone is the most painful and true thing