when I first signed up to this app I was scrolling everyday and just completely engulfed in the pain
fast forward to today and yes i still miss her but im no longer seeking answers to questions that now that I look at them just don’t matter and now that I’ve hit 2 months no contact I am so proud of myself for how far I’ve come because at the time I didn’t even think I’d get to this point and my life didn’t end that day and the world kept spinning
whilst I do still have hard days and whilst I do still miss her I’ve come to terms with what the situation is and I’m starting to forgive myself and let go of any resentment or hurt that I had towards her and all you have to do is keep moving forward because if you don’t keep moving forward you get left behind whilst the world keeps moving on
the point I’m trying to get across is thank you to everyone on this app who has guided me and gave me a different perspective you well and truly guided me through one of the scariest and hardest times of my life and whoever is reading this just remember that everything will work out you just need to have a little faith
(AND DO NOT BREAK NO CONTACT)
thank you everyone
Last updated on:2026-04-06T22:52:03+05:30
Comments (6)
what was the moment where you felt it shift a little, like you weren’t drowning in it the same way anymore?
this made me smile, honestly.
i love reading this… i remember being stuck in that loop of checking my phone and replaying everything, thinking i needed answers to move on. hitting that point where the questions just… stop mattering, that’s HUGE. proud of you fr.
thats great this app helps me alot to heal
im so happy for you. any tips for the first few weeks when you just feel so shocked that it’s over?
you’ve honestly just gotta ride it out and let yourself feel the emotions, there’s no point trying to distract yourself because you’ve gotta feel these emotions to come to terms with it