Why did she say she wants to break up after a year?

we were close to hitting a year. i’m in college we’re long distance and my situation is messy right now my abusive parents basically left me on my own and i don’t even know how i’m gonna keep going or if i’ll have a place to stay soon.
she had been my support through all of this. she told me i could lean on her even financially and we both agreed my last job wasn’t cutting it so i left it. but last night everything flipped out of nowhere. she was being sweet telling me she loved me then suddenly got angry over something small and it turned into her saying i rely on her too much and got too comfortable with her helping me.
i’ve been struggling bad mentally and with school trying to push through with counseling and everything and then she just ended it. it felt like she exploded on me. what hurts is she knew everything i was dealing with and still chose that moment.
then this morning she called saying she overreacted and doesn’t actually want to break up. she said it was like an ultimatum to push me to get myself together and that she doesn’t want to be someone who leaves when things get hard.
now i’m just stuck. i’m angry because it feels like the trust is broken like i can’t lean on her the same way anymore. but i also don’t want to lose her. we said we’d take a day without talking but she’s still sending me stuff like nothing happened. i don’t know what to do or what this even is anymore.

Last updated on:2026-04-01T17:06:03+05:30