long story short, I broke up with him last year for 8 months because I wanted to focus on myself. i came back in January and he did speak to me. since then he s been on and off but we decided to date again and after 2 weeks since we started dating again, he blocked me out of nowhere and ignored every message I sent. After a month and a half since he completely cut me off, he emailed me saying he’s sorry and regrets everything, I broke no contact today after 2 weeks and he ignored me again. he was so in love with me, now he’s like this.
What’s going on with him? What should I do? Why cant he just decide already?
Last updated on:2026-04-02T22:59:03+05:30
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True love doesn't behave like this. Honestly. You need to move on. Look at this experience as a guide stick of what is and what is not true love, and go find the former in a confident soul who knows who he is and who he wants.
do you feel like he’s actually showing you he wants this, or are you holding on to who he used to be?
ugh this one hurt to read… i’ve been there with someone who kept coming back just to disappear again, it messes with your head so bad. i kept thinking the love i saw before would come back but the hot and cold never stopped.
it seems like he only wants you when it’s convenient for him. And because he knows you don’t turn him down he keeps doing it bc your letting him back in everytime he pulls away. I say block him. nobody ever deserves too question why these things keep happening when all you want is for him too love you. it’s not fair to you.
you’re right about that, but I thought maybe he was gonna change his mind because I really did love him alot. i explained myself a lot after and tried to fix things, but he kept ignoring me. a few days ago, after I blocked him everywhere, he emailed me saying he’s sorry and regrets everything. i thought maybe he was still hurt from when I left him, so I explained myself again and again. but when it came to actually talking normally today, he ignored me again. he even sent messages and deleted them last week, and only reached out with a very small message on my email after I had already poured my heart out and was trying to move on. i never even had a proper conversation or closure from him. why would someone say they regret everything but still avoid a real conversation and keep ignoring me? why is it so hard for him to make up his mind? i am not a stranger to him, i always thought maybe he just was scared to let me in again, scared that I might leave again, but maybe he just really doesnt want me anymore, but he did those 2 weeks?