it’s almost 9 month..i always try to forget him..but my love was so deep and pure that i can't do so...though he fooled me,i loved him from the core of heart...God may give strength to move on from that guy,,if i can't move on, i may lost😭😭
Last updated on:2026-04-13T14:06:03+05:30
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when you say you’re trying to forget him, what does that actually look like for you day to day?
i feel this so much… i was stuck for almost a year after mine left, same loop every day, same thoughts, same pain. loving someone that deeply doesn’t just switch off, even when they hurt you
the pain is proof of how deeply you loved him. You deserve a love that stays and treats you right. Whatever you do, dont reminisce. Don't look at old photos, dont check his socials, dont go over old text messages. If you do, your nervous system relives the pain all over again and opens all those wounds. You deserve to be chosen and he didnt choose you. You are strong, you can move on. Take each day as it comes, there will always be waves of pain and sadness, but hopefully in time those days will be less and less
Stop focusing on him and the past. You must focus on your own healing and the future. As soon as your thoughts go to him, get up and get busy doing something. You have to fight for your mental freedom. Fight. Decide to get on with your life. To sit there impassively expecting change will not bring change. Go out and live YOUR life. If you do not fight for your freedom, you will be in this wallowing place for another 9 months.
and that's okay to miss him. I mean you loved the guy. you can't magically get over someone or suddenly forget them. there isn't really a remedy to get over someone. you just need to focus on yourself eventually you'll see that you've made peace with the situation and when you speak about it again near future you won't be as hurt. just take your time healing. find hobbies in the mean time. I swear you'll find the right person for you one day and this time you won't have to settle.
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know youre not alone friend ❤️
Have you deleted his pics and blocked him ?