its almost 2 months since we broke up and its been 10 days so far since the last time my ex reached out. I hate that i just stare at my phone waiting for him to break contact again. something tells me our story isnt over but I can't take this on and off contact. like im respecting his boundaries and giving him space but what about me? Idk how to distract myself anymore, I always talk about him, and then remembering this time last year we were happy. I feel alone, I barely have friends to hang out with, all I do is go to work, go on tiktok, and take a walk at night so I fall asleep quicker. I miss him and I just want us to work out. He reached out may 19th a month after we broke up, 24th, 28th, june 2,3,4,5 and I think because I brought up memories from the past it pushed him away, idk.
Last updated on:2025-06-18T03:46:03+05:30
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it’s tough to balance respecting someone else’s boundaries while feeling like your own neds aren’t being met.
It’s so hard to move forward when there’s still hope in your heart. Be gentle with yourself
I can feel how much you care and it’s so hard when thing feel unresolved.
hi breakups are so complicated especially when there’s still contact. Take it one day at a time
It’s okay to miss him and want things to work out but don’t forget to take care of yourself too.
It’s so hard to let go when you still care deeply. Be kind to yourself you deserve peace and clarity even if it takes time to get there.
Hey Friend I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through this Pain and I might sound insensitive but I swear I am not, Just Drop all the hopes ,Go ahead with your life as if they are never coming back, Be invested and involved in Your life.Waiting is the energy of self rejection, and if you are rejecting yourself why would your ex accept you.Accept yourself over your Partner this.You are the most beautiful gift given by God to You.Be with that gift, Respect it, Love it.Let All the hopes and All the Plans as if you are having a New life and New birth, These hopes are the ones that keep you tied to the Past which is in Mind and One part of your mind won't want to do it.Cuz Mind never wants to step in the Unknown but take a Leap of faith, in Life, In God , In your.Be Fresh, Be New.
and I would Say
it's Easier Done than Said ,
deep thoughts