I feel so sad today. I just want to talk to him

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I feel so sad today. I just want to talk to him. I miss him so much. It just doesn’t make sense to me that we were together for five years, and now he doesn’t even care. He doesn’t miss me at all. I saw him two days ago and all I wanted to do was hug him. When I took his arm, he just said, “I don’t want to be rude, but why are you touching me?” DUDE, WHAT? When I asked if he missed me, he just said, “Oh, a little.” But at the end of the day, he told me, “I don’t know what you were waiting for. I just don’t love you anymore.”

Last updated on:2025-07-10T05:15:29+05:30

Comments (10)

BraveHug99
BraveHug99 8 mths ago

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I’m going through something very similar right now, and I know how awful it feels. I want you to know that you are having a normal reaction to the circumstances, and that it’s him that’s having the abnormal reaction. He sounds like somebody who is similar to the person I was dating. I know you are in a lot of pain right now, but I promise you are going to be okay. Please try not to waste your energy trying to decipher why he’s being so cold. He has growing up to do, and you are better than that, you are already grown. I’ve been reminding myself every day since my recent breakup that I deserve better, and you do too. You deserve someone who actually cares and who has normal emotional reactions and responses to things.

leaviekovb
leaviekovb 8 mths ago

It’s okay to miss him but remember you deserve someone who appreciates you.

globera
globera 8 mths ago

That’s so tough to hear. It’s okay to grieve the relationship but don’t forget to take care of yourself too.

classygirl1
classygirl1 8 mths ago

that must have hurt so much. You deserve someone who loves you fully.

sadphoenix
sadphoenix 8 mths ago

not trying to be insensitive or anything, your pain is totally valid, but please don't touch people without consent

Kunchyeh
Kunchyeh 8 mths ago

It’s tough but maybe focusing on yourself will help you heal.

paleboat
paleboat 8 mths ago

That sounds so heartbreaking. It’s okay to feel sad just know you’re stronger than you think.

smanth603
smanth603 8 mths ago

Oh no I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. That must have been so hard to hear.

Unhealed
Unhealed 8 mths ago

That's brutal. It's time to move on. You deserve better.

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 8 mths ago

Hey I am really sorry to hear that it can be hard to Loose a partner from a Long term relationship.Hope it gets better' for you from here.Its difficult to let go or even Decide that you need to let go but sometimes thats the only option