people on this app are truly so lovely and supportive
people on this app are truly so lovely and supportive. I've never experienced anything like it. You have no idea how uplifting you are I really appreciate it. thank you x
All the posts by: DreamAndJoy9
I'm really sad today
I'm really sad today, after deleting all the pictures of the kids I feel an enormous loss for them. that I didn't get to say goodbye. wondering if they are ok. I'm angry at him for putting me in the p
i just spent the last two hours deleting all the picture of me and him and his kids from my phone
i just spent the last two hours deleting all the picture of me and him and his kids from my phone. it's was hard dwlting the pictures of the kids but I don't see why I should have them there. I did lo
42 days no contacts, I felt like I was going strong and then some random guy added me on insta and started chatting to me
42 days no contacts, I felt like I was going strong and then some random guy added me on insta and started chatting to me. asked me out. asked me to meet the next day, said I was busy which ibwa said
31 days no contact, on the motorway stuck in traffic due to an accident on the way to work and I could feel someone looking at me
31 days no contact, on the motorway stuck in traffic due to an accident on the way to work and I could feel someone looking at me, didn't think anything of it, a few moments later I looked up and ther
this app and everyone on it has been so supportive
this app and everyone on it has been so supportive, I really appreciate all the comments and advice. I still think about him, about the day I left and it makes me feel very emotional not as often thou
why is it, I'm fine during the day but when I go to go to sleep all these thoughts come racing into my head about what he's doing now
why is it, I'm fine during the day but when I go to go to sleep all these thoughts come racing into my head about what he's doing now, who will he meet after me, things that happened during the relati
Its been over a month since I left him
Its been over a month since I left him. things are getting easier, I think about him less, 25 days no contact. the relationship took so much out of me, right now I feel like I couldn't go through or e
I ordered some clothes online and forgot to change my address
I ordered some clothes online and forgot to change my address, got a delivery notification with a picture of his front door when I was in work. my heart sank. thankfully my old neighbour text me and I
I was in an abusive relationship before years ago both mentally and physically and it was very obvious what it was
I was in an abusive relationship before years ago both mentally and physically and it was very obvious what it was. my last relationship though, I didn't notice anything until the very end, now I reco
I hope it's okay I'm using this as a kind of journal for bad memories that are coming back to me
I hope it's okay I'm using this as a kind of journal for bad memories that are coming back to me. today is extremely trying, my ex snored and I asked most nights if he would mind trying to sleep on hi
I feel so up and down
I feel so up and down. yesterday marked one month leaving him and 18 days no contact. I can't sleep because I'm staying to remember all the little details of how badly he treated me. things from three
one month today since I packed my bags and left him
one month today since I packed my bags and left him. one week not drinking alcohol so I don't do something I regret. I unpacked the last of my things today, felt relieved more than anything. starting
a week ago I text his friend who he is no longer friends with and asked to be friends
a week ago I text his friend who he is no longer friends with and asked to be friends. i was very drunk and regret it badly. I've been sober now and I reached out to him to say I was drunk and i didn'
it will be a month on Monday since I left our shares home and moved back to my parents after three and a half years
it will be a month on Monday since I left our shares home and moved back to my parents after three and a half years. I had two very unsettling dreams last night about him. I've woken up this morning a
just booked my first solo holiday ever for Septemb
just booked my first solo holiday ever for September!! it's feel empowering and scary but I know it's going to do my confidence wonders 💪🏼
Does anyone know anything about trauma bonding
Does anyone know anything about trauma bonding, he treated me badly but I feel guilty even talking to close friends about the bad things he did like I'm betraying him somehow.
Does anyone have any suggestions with coping with a breakup
Does anyone have any suggestions with coping with a breakup, it's been three weeks and I've admitted to myself today I'm using alcohol at the weekends so numb everything and feel good. I can't deal wi
I ended up walking to my ex's friend on social media last night
I ended up walking to my ex's friend on social media last night, they no longer talk. it really upset me him saying he's alone now and feeling sorry for him, that he only had eyes for me, I fell like
I had my first night out last night since the breakup
I had my first night out last night since the breakup. not being allowed to see friends and socialise,I really don't know myself. I'm starting to see there's alot more benefits to not being in that re
I went for a drink after work and a guy started talking to me and I'm not joking he had the same job circumstances everything as my ex
I went for a drink after work and a guy started talking to me and I'm not joking he had the same job circumstances everything as my ex .it was like the universe was like I'm gonna throw this at you Cl
it's only been just over two weeks but I'm starting to remember all the bad things like from the very begining things I had completely forgotten about that I excused and said he would change and he did with some things
it's only been just over two weeks but I'm starting to remember all the bad things like from the very begining things I had completely forgotten about that I excused and said he would change and he di
I left my ex nearly two weeks ago
I left my ex nearly two weeks ago. can I ask about the no contact, I reached out at the weekend, a moment of weakness. I deleted the message before he saw it and blocked him again is this still contac