a week ago I text his friend who he is no longer friends with and asked to be friends

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a week ago I text his friend who he is no longer friends with and asked to be friends. i was very drunk and regret it badly. I've been sober now and I reached out to him to say I was drunk and i didn't mean it it was a ridiculous thing to say. why am I worrying so much about this. it's been a month. I don't want to get back with him I suppose I don't want to hurt him or him to think bad of me. I don't know why when all he did was hurt me when we were together.

Last updated on:2025-05-26T22:15:03+05:30

Comments (14)

roastmind
roastmind 11 mths ago

The person who hurt you doesn’t deserve space in your mind anymore. Focus on the future you’ll be happier there.

scarel224
scarel224 11 mths ago

uh know I used to cringe over small things like this but I realized I was only hanging onto them because I hadn’t fully let go yet. You will.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

thank you 🙏🏼 😊

classygirl1
classygirl1 11 mths ago

I know the feeling of wanting to control how they see you but what they think doesn’t matter anymore. Free yourself from that weight.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

that's exactly what it is, that if somehow he sees me only as good he will regret how badly he treated but it doesn't matter because I don't want him

HealingVibes
HealingVibes 11 mths ago

I used to obsess over what my ex thought of me even though they hurt me. But one day I realized why should I care about someone who never cared enough for me?

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

thank you, I needed to hear that 💜

Soira21122
Soira21122 11 mths ago

I’ve sent those regretful texts too convinced they meant more than they did. Truth is it’s not that deep let it go like you’re learning to let go of him.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

Thank you, people are great on this app 💜

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 11 mths ago

Hey it's really ok what you did, You were drunk and may be hurting.the good thing is that you are still a caring person .You can own whatever you did and now it's gone

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

thank you 🙏🏼😊

callmemaybee
callmemaybee 11 mths ago

we do things we regret.. just own it yes you did something you are not proud of if that's how you are feeling..and move on..you are human... incidents such as this dont define you.. dont worry about it

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 11 mths ago

ah thank you 😊 it's out of my hands now and hopefully I'll never see either of them ever again 😄

callmemaybee
callmemaybee 11 mths ago

@DreamAndJoy9 yeah that's how you need yourself thinking.dont mull over things. regret is a waste of time especially cos it changes nothing in the past. tc. all the best