31 days no contact, on the motorway stuck in traffic due to an accident on the way to work and I could feel someone looking at me, didn't think anything of it, a few moments later I looked up and there he was in the lane next to me just up ahead. what are the chances. he looked pretty pissed off, we didn't make eye contact, I moved into another lane away from him. it was weird seeing him but I'm glad I've got the first time out of the way. I didn't really feel anything at all. it may be different if I see him with someone new but I thought if I ever met him I would die but it was fine and I'm fine. I actually laughed because of the randomness of it
Last updated on:2025-06-09T23:24:57+05:30
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Hey That sounds like you have made great progress and have become so much stronger, but keep going till you have shifted your life back to Joy and peace
that sounds so random but yeah things like happen and you are left wondering whats up with with ur stars .
Seeing them with someone new might sting but if this moment taught you anything it’s that you’ll handle it better than you think. Keep moving forward you’re doing amazing.
Not feeling anything at all is a win. You’ve built yourself back up enough that their presence doesn’t shake you anymore. That’s huge.
You moved lanes you literally and figuratively chose a different direction. That speaks volumes about where you’re headed. You’re distancing yourself in ways that matter.
It’s funny how the universe throws these moments at us when we least expect them. But you showed yourself that the world doesn’t stop just because they’re nearby.
I’d fall apart when I saw them again but when it actually happened I felt... fine. It’s wild how the mind builds up fears that aren’t as bad as we imagine.
you handled it with grace. No panic no desperate feelings just recognition that you’re okay without them. That’s powerful.
The fact that you laughed at the randomness of it says everything. You’re gaining perspective detaching bit by bit. Keep going this reaction proves healing is happening. 🤗♥️
Thirty-one days of no contact is no small feat and now you’ve tackled seeing them in person too. Every milestone in healing feels strange but you’re doing better than you thought.