He messaged me after close to two weeks and no contact. Do I Reply? Keep in mind that first week of no contact was all him. 👻
Last updated on:2026-03-20T22:56:59+05:30
Should i reply to his message after two weeks of no contact?
He messaged me after close to two weeks and no contact. Do I Reply? Keep in mind that first week of no contact was all him. 👻
Last updated on:2026-03-20T22:56:59+05:30
Comments (7)
no because at the end of the day we know it's hard but god separates people for a reason
what did his message actually feel like to you, comfort or just anxiety coming back?
It felt like butterflies .... but I know I can't see him. I have come too far. Plus he just ignored me when I tried to reach out to him before I stopped. Even now 😔 even though I told him no I still wish I didn't break no contact and at the same time wish he didn't go away even though I told him to. I love him but don't want to I guess is the best way to put it. I like I got that text... but don't want to like that either.
i didn’t reply the second time it happened to me, as hard as that was. i needed more than a random message after silence, i needed consistency and i knew i wasn’t getting that.
He just Text then again.. asking about if I want a game of Monopoly (yeah we used to play together). I'm going to answer: No thanks to Monopoly and any other games!
hey when mine came back after a couple weeks, i felt relief for a second then right back into confusion. it pulled me straight back into the same cycle.
think you are right. This means very little but it is always nicer being the one to do the ghosting then being ghosted.