Moving on but still thinking of him: what does it mean?

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it’s been 4 months and i am dealing better but i still think about him every day . he’s been going out to parties and apparently he’s been talking to other girls but surely he has to think about me? pleas can someone help my delusions , we were together for 18 months and he was obsessed with me

Last updated on:2026-03-30T17:09:03+05:30

Comments (5)

imaginme
imaginme 3 wks ago

you feel like you’re holding onto the version of him from when he was obsessed with you, or the person he’s being right now?

heartthreft
heartthreft 3 wks ago

i get why your brain goes there, i did it too, but what helped me was pulling my focus back to what he’s actually showing now, not what he used to feel

Unhealed
Unhealed 3 wks ago

It's been 11 months for me and I still think about him every day. It is maddening. I wish to be over this already!

jillybeans
jillybeans 3 wks ago

months out and still thinking about him daily while he looked like he moved on so easy. mine was obsessed too, said all the things, and i kept wondering if i ever cross his mind… that question used to eat me alive

HappyTrail513
HappyTrail513 3 wks ago

he probably thinks about you alot but he's tryna hid it by talking to other girls 😐