Moving on from a short but sweet relationship

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i had a short relationship about two months and we ended things peacefully. we’re both guys and we haven’t spoken at all since the breakup.
it’s been two months now and i thought i was starting to feel better but since yesterday the pain has come rushing back and it’s really overwhelming.
i don’t think i’m still in love with him but i truly did love him. what hurts the most is thinking about what i lost those two months felt like the happiest time of my life.
i just want this feeling to stop. i really want to heal and move forward

Last updated on:2026-03-31T03:36:03+05:30

Comments (6)

Kingrellsr
Kingrellsr 6 days ago

I'm in a kind of similar situation.
She cheated on me and i still wanted to overlook that and build our relationship from scratch if she wanted too and begged her that we don't end things
she was my first for everything
I still loved her after all she did to me

xoxoboi
xoxoboi 6 days ago

Gay here, I know how you feel. Almost 4 years together and it was a terrible breakup with a year of breadcrumbing. The feeling do go away to some extent, just keep putting yourself first, everyday. Even simple things will ease the ache.

Western293
Western293 6 days ago

You don’t. It will stop hurting one day but right now just feel the pain until it hurts no more

Flybri080
Flybri080 6 days ago

You make new memories and doesn't think about these. To be frank, you didn't lose anything beside the idea of a future. You can build this idea on anybody and see if they are receptive about your thoughts on life or not. It's a process.

DicchiPoo
DicchiPoo 6 days ago

You cant really heal by making it stop i fear, maybe you can, I wouldnt know all that much. But never seen anyone truly make it stop. You just gotta live with it ig, at some point u wont realise its there.

Nikola
Nikola 6 days ago

i feel that i want to leave him so badly and it's just very painful we're not meant to be and i know it but he just makes me feel the happiest and then just crash me down where everything start feeling so hard and so low😞