I was with this guy for 2 years and he was my first relationship. we rarely fought he said I was pretty much perfect and would consistently tell me I was beautiful. He said the reason he broke up was fell out of love. he’s already started dating other girls. I’m wondering if he’ll regret it cause I thought we had something great
Last updated on:2026-04-22T20:52:01+05:30
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do you feel like you’re holding onto the version of him who loved you, or who he’s actually being right now?
both he’s been sweet but strict with boundaries since the breakup. he says he still loves and cares about me just not in love anymore.i genuinely just miss everything about him even the negatives. looking back though it never would’ve worked out cause he has a tendency to get bored with everything. i felt our relationship was very healthy. i just want him to see that the grass is not usually greener on the other side. like the other person said tho it doesn’t matter. btw side note I’m gonna have to see him in 2.5 months for a court trial we were both victims in tho. (on day 3 nc)
my first love said almost the exact same thing, that i was “perfect” and then just… fell out of it. i kept waiting for the moment he’d realize what he lost, but that waiting kept me stuck longer than the breakup itself
it’s a weird feeling but it shows that they just are in the stage of life that maybe novelty and fun is priority. the sparks always going to fade :
I don't think it's important to know that; whatever the answer is, it would only serve to feed your ego based on what someone else thinks. That's not very healthy.