Am i the problem? understanding my heartbreak

is it normal to be with a heavy heart, and when he talks to you with sweet words, you say something like : but if you really love me you wouldn’t have left me alone talking while the fight ( because we were fighting he left me in the middle of the conv alone so i had launch all by myself then after 20 min he did come back) , so he got mad and told me that i made him turned off and already and f this shit

Last updated on:2026-04-27T05:15:04+05:30

Comments (5)

carmaccho
carmaccho 4 wks ago

when he came back and got sweet, did it actually feel genuine to you or did it feel like he was just trying to smooth things over without really fixing what happened?

bronto
bronto 4 wks ago

being left alone like that mid fight hurts more than people admit.

jillybeans
jillybeans 4 wks ago

my ex would leave mid argument too and then come back acting soft, and i’d snap because it felt like he just disappeared on me when i needed him most.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 4 wks ago

no

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 4 wks ago

it is not normal! Leave him, you deserve better than this