I dated my ex for a little over 5 months. he is my first relationship. I have broken up multiple times with him for various reasons. I always went back though coz I missed and loved him. This time im not feeling anything for him. its like I feel empty and he is now chasing me. Please advice.
Last updated on:2026-05-14T17:47:12+05:30
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do you think you actually miss HIM when you go back, or do you miss the feeling of having someone there?
if you feel empty instead of relieved or excited by him chasing you, i’d listen to that. sometimes your heart gets tired before your brain catches up.
i missed the comfort more than the actual relationship. when the feelings finally went quiet it honestly scared me at first.
Be easy on him don’t be mean but be honest give him the closure he maybe need without saying thing like maybe in a few years make it clear your done and those feeling just aren’t there
First love is always hard to let go but your mind and heart are telling you enough so I think it's better to tell him and just end it once and for good, unfortunately some things just don't work out
as someone who’s on the other end of the stick right now, leave him be. i was her first relationship, we lasted 6 months. Absolutely i want to chase her, but im not going to. I tried for a few days and i didnt want to make it worse. Give that boy some grace and tell him straight up. You dont have feelings anymore. If you told him its over and you told him to stop chasing you. Then leave it be. Cuz boy i wish my girl would have just told me something instead of ghosting me and leaving me confused. You get hurt in the end anyways, i just rather have honesty
leave him alone. if it’s done on your end - give that to both of you, to move on.