I am so confuse, we have been 4 days without contact and he wrote me today this messege.
I appreciate you very much. I like you a lot and I'd like to be friends with you in the future. Let's see how things go. I wish you all the best. Have a nice day
Last updated on:2026-05-21T23:20:34+05:30
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do you actually want friendship with him someday or does part of you just want this to turn back into the relationship again
i think for me is not good to have friendship. one part still love him but i know that i cant come back
when someone says “let’s see how things go” right after no contact, i stopped treating it like a promise. i had to look at actions instead of the soft words because those mixed signals kept me stuck.
That's what they call a breadcrumb.Don't fall for it.
ufff yes i feel like a shit, here wrote me already 2 times in 4 days , hours after breakup and after today…
please don't fall for that line. It means nothing. Its just to ease their guilt. I fell for it and went back after 24 days of no contact and now I am being treated like a doormat and i am the faulty person in the relationship.
Yes he broke the contact 2 times .. hours after breakup and now again after 4 days..
and in the future it will happen again, its better dont answer anymore?
@Broken123456 yes better to not take the bait for your own peace.
@BlazeZip593 thank you for your advice darling
ugh that “let’s be friends in the future” line messed with my head too when my ex sent it. it gave me just enough hope to keep rereading the message for weeks
Yes let be friends.. after 4 days after breakup. he first wrote me after breakup like 5 hours after that he love me and that he feel bad. and today after 4 days again this messege, i will dont answer .. its just slowly destroy me