Why did my ex text me after the breakup?

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why my ex wrote me 2 times in 4 days after we broke up. how i am, and that he love me and that we will be friends. why he is doing that to me ?

Last updated on:2026-05-23T02:52:12+05:30

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bluefurred
bluefurred 2 days ago

my ex kept telling me he loved me after ending things too, and every message gave me hope again even though nothing was actually changing

LazerBoy855
LazerBoy855 2 days ago

..Talk to him.tell him about ur current feeling and get ur answers from him.Analyse situation and make a wise judgement

HappyFeet985
HappyFeet985 2 days ago

been through this cycle for 9 years it doesn't change they want your comfort untill you are drained then he walks away and once he feels your absence he want to connect but not get close

In essence he wants to keep you closed to others but not close himself off hense the friends

mischaos
mischaos 2 days ago

sometimes they miss the comfort and connection but still don’t want the relationship back.

SassyScorpio
SassyScorpio 2 days ago

Because you are letting him write to you. If you don’t share kids or pets there is no reason to be in contact with your ex. Block him everywhere. I mean EVERYWHERE. If he wants to get back together, he needs to show up fully. Not breadcrumb you like others have said.

alonebudy
alonebudy 3 days ago

he actually wants to work things out, or does it feel more like he wants access to you without fully losing you?

Broken123456
Broken123456 3 days ago

he just want acces to dont lose me … but like this i cant never heal

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 3 days ago

breadcumbing and gaslighting. checking to see if he can come n go and you'll still be around when it's convenient for him.

Broken123456
Broken123456 3 days ago

Its better dont answer to him?