How to cope when your ex is still living with you

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been broke up for almost a month shes living here until she finds a place. 3 years of complicated bs but alot of love i had no idea how much of a compulsive liar she was i wanted to marry her and now shes talking to other people one being a GUY she just said she wasn't thinking about guys but i know its all lies even walked in on the phone with someone shes talking to she shattered me completely 😞

Last updated on:2026-05-25T06:18:12+05:30

Comments (5)

batman00
batman00 2 mths ago

the lying hurts almost more than the breakup itself because suddenly you start questioning what was even real.

7kings
7kings 2 mths ago

man living together after a breakup is its own kind of torture. i had to watch my ex slowly detach right in front of me and every little thing felt like another tiny breakup all over again. hearing her talk to other people while you’re still under the same roof is BRUTAL.

Textluver
Textluver 2 mths ago

when you say compulsive liar, do you feel like you ignored red flags during the relationship because you loved her, or did all this only come out after the breakup?

SpaceGurl91
SpaceGurl91 2 mths ago

definitely was red flags 🙄 i am also responsible in this breakup bt i didn't realize how bad the shit was

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 2 mths ago

she's a user. why are you letting her stay, Are you hoping she'll change her mind and stay. I know it's hard but if you have to, put her stuff someplace else. make a stand you deserve better. believe me it will get better after she's gone and you can start working on getting your life back.