its 8 days now since I saw him last time to say good bye, and collect my clothes from his house.
he wrote me 2 times, just chein in how are you, we will be friends, I told him that I wish him the best and dont answer to his question.
today is 4 days since last contact and I am just starting to breath again, I feel really better without know anything.
i just hope that he will understand and let me in piece 🙏❤️
Last updated on:2026-05-25T21:23:11+05:30
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when the silence finally starts calming your body down a little and then they pop back in with a “just checking on you.” my ex wanted friendship right away too and i physically couldn’t do it. i needed distance just to feel like myself again.
your decision was very mature
i think you’re doing the right thing by not reopening the conversation. i kept replying out of guilt after my breakup and it dragged the pain out for months. those few quiet days can feel like oxygen after drowning.
he actually understands that contact resets your healing, or is he trying to ease HIS guilt by staying connected?
he does chein in- I love you I am really sorry about it, after 4 days later that he told me that he is feeling good acepting the breakup. my last messege was that i wish him the best, but i have intuition that he will contact me again .. because he wants to be a friends