Why did she leave me for a random guy?

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she met some random guy on a trek and just like that 10 years of us disappeared. all i got was “sorry for everything” before she walked away. feels crazy how a whole decade of love, memories, energy and loyalty can end so fast.
has anyone else ever been left like this out of nowhere?

Last updated on:2026-05-29T19:06:09+05:30

Comments (4)

ChillSpark798
ChillSpark798 2 mths ago

...Yep. Sadly, I see that.

Sometimes people just have a "...Oh. I don't love him anymore" moment. I think my ex had one of those. Especially if they keep it quiet and in their head, that festers and quickly eats away at the relationship in a way nothing else quite does.

10 years is brutal. I hope you're doing alright.

handcraft
handcraft 2 mths ago

10 years is a whole lifetime of routines and memories. what helped me a little was stopping myself from calling it “wasted time” because i was real the whole way through, even if she wasn’t in the end.

glassbind22
glassbind22 2 mths ago

did this really feel out of nowhere to you or were there tiny changes before the trek that you maybe ignored because you trusted her completely?

bluefurred
bluefurred 2 mths ago

It is what it is. Nothing helps, only time heals. Be with people who care for you. It will be difficult.