How i moved on: my ick list strategy

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I used to have this ex on and off for 2 years, toxic and insane...I did this thing where i wrote an entire ick list and then I blocked him everywhere..literally everywhere...even Pinterest and everytime I think of him I'd go to the ick list and read..it...it helped.me.....has anyone done this as well before and it has worked for them??

Last updated on:2026-06-02T17:39:11+05:30

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CrustySock
CrustySock 2 mths ago

when you go back and read the ick list now, do you mostly feel relief or do you still find yourself missing him underneath it all

nijjasoul
nijjasoul 2 mths ago

if it's helping you stay away from someone you already know was toxic for you, i'd keep reading that list whenever the rose-colored glasses show up. my memory became VERY selective after the breakup lol.

brokenking
brokenking 2 mths ago

whenever nostalgia hit i'd magically forget all the chaos. having those reminders written down helped me remember why i left in the first place.