Its been 2 months since i confessed and she rejected saying i am ber brother after everday and night talks for hrs for last 1 year . I knew from the start of our friendship one day she will leave me for others and i was just a temporary person holding things till her people comeback. Even after all that i thought friendahip is more important and i went back after 24 days of NC and she was like still i was the issue.
I explained her how her hanging out with her ex and crush and other friends and her hot and cold behavior made me more anxious and that lead to confession without clarity. she straight away blamed me but i still took all the blame on myself begged her but she was like i filled my void and i am not intrested in discussing.
I was like do i have that small of a value in ur life that u can fill it in 24 days but still i tried each and everyday but she said she need time to comeback to normal mindset and then i felt it was tactic to break free from me.
Then suddenly after a week she messaged saying she is near my house to surprise me but i was away and got confused what is gng on then again 1 week of silence and then i reached out she was back chatting like ntg happend and then next day she contacted herself and then suddenly back to square one. i reached out and then she again started replying late and like she is not intrested at all.
I am not understanding anymore ? what should i do ? I feel like shit ? i don't know what she is expecting from me or is she just playing
Last updated on:2026-06-04T23:43:12+05:30
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had someone who kept pulling me close and then pushing me away, and every time they came back acting normal i convinced myself it meant something.
if someone wanted me in their life, i needed their actions to look like it, not just the occasional message or surprise appearance.
if she had never shown up near your house and never restarted those conversations, would you have been able to accept the rejection and start moving forward, or is it those little moments of hope that keep pulling you back in?
i might have given up cause before her showing up at my house her actions when i tried to fix things showed me she is not interested anymore.