he used to repost thirst traps of other women and when I said im uncomfortable with it he said I need to work on myself and that im insecure.
Am I insecure and jealous?
Last updated on:2026-06-05T18:02:47+05:30
Why does his behavior make me feel this way?
Comments (8)
when you told him it hurt you, did he actually try to understand where you were coming from, or did the conversation end as soon as he labeled you insecure?
he didn't try to understand at all he acted hurt by it because "I don't trust him"
You're not wrong or insecure . Why would you repost certain things when you are in a relationship ? He needs to also be considerate of your feelings.
i don't think you're the problem for feeling uncomfortable
my ex used to follow and interact with a ton of thirst trap content, and when i brought it up i got told i was insecure too. wanting your feelings taken seriously doesn't automatically make you jealous or controlling
please dont see yourself as the problem but his actions are red flags
no, if you're uncomfortable with what he post out of respect for you, he should have addressed the situation better.
noo!! he made up an excuse to keep reposting