Ok so I'm new here and me n my gf ended things June 6th but I keep reaching out I genuyput so much into her I can't do it w/o her. She cheated on me twice n had a gf for 2 months before me n her got tg. She told me she genuinely loves both of us and that she's a people pleaser and the fact she has always tried giving people the love they never had n it always blows up on her. I told her she can't have both of us bc it's js gon hurt us. She's still w the other girl.
Last updated on:2026-06-12T10:08:11+05:30
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i stayed with someone who kept choosing other people while telling me they loved me too, and it made me feel like i was competing for a place i should've already had. i remember thinking i couldn't do life without her too
I'm so sorry honey but we can't force people to chose us no matter how good we are to them. If their hearts chose another we just have to love them from afar. I know it's hard believe me but life goes on. I hope you find something to keep your mind occupied. I took have been cheated on multiple times and I am slowly getting over how dirty my ex treated me, even though we had 2 miscarriage together he still left me to grieve alone. We will get through this pal, one day at a time.