my ex kept my passport and my only copy of me performing in a musical. I had to get them back this past week. we already were supposed to exchange things like a month ago and I had to reach out to ask for them back. I didn’t count this as breaking no contact but is that normal? I feel crazy cause why would they keep so many important things.
Last updated on:2026-06-17T14:35:12+05:30
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"i need my belongings back" from "i'm trying to reconnect." sometimes an exchange is just an exchange, even if it stirs up a lot of feelings.
i'd have reached out too. my ex had some important stuff of mine after our breakup and getting it back felt like a practical thing, not breaking no contact. a passport especially is a HUGE thing to be holding onto.