hello everyone hope you’re all having a good day. i’ll get straight to the point.
around 9 or 10 months ago i met a girl. At first we were just friends but later she told me she liked me and we started a relationship. I loved her so much and hearing that she felt the same meant everything to me.
We had some arguments like any couple but we always worked things out and got back to normal. A few days ago we met and everything felt fine there were no signs that anything was wrong.
But over the last few days she started replying much later than usual and her messages became cold. It really hurt me so I asked her if something was wrong. She told me she wanted to end our relationship and that she felt like I was bothering her.
I was completely shocked. I never thought I would hear those words from her. I still can’t accept it and my mind feels like it’s spinning.
I’ve tried reaching out but she keeps telling me not to text her. She was such a big part of my life. I loved her more than I loved myself.
I’ve always struggled with relationships and making friends so she became the person I relied on the most. Now that she’s gone I don’t know how to deal with this pain.
Last updated on:2026-07-11T00:27:12+05:30
Comments (6)
Delete everything about her out of your life. Things she gave you or pictures. Anything on social media. Delete it all!!! Yes I know it will hurt but you need to do it.
Coming from someone who also struggles to make connections and friends, it’s important to remember that anything that requires you to have a tight grip is not worth holding onto. One way or another, all relationships come to an end. My parents had a beautiful marriage, and my mom still had to say goodbye my dad early thanks to cancer. My advice is to learn how to be okay with letting go of relationships, or you’ll feel like you’re suffocating jn every single one. Also, leave that poor girl alone. She’s made her intentions clear multiple times. It’s time to respect yourself and your emotional needs, recognize that she will not give you what you want, and move on. You’ve got this
You met 9-10 months ago and love her more than yourself? I doubt that. She is probably feeling how youre obsessed with her
sorry to hear it did not work out for you. unfortunately, there is no way but to feel and accept the pain. Remember if ypi could love someone else you can love yourself :) hard times but it builds character
awh. :( that hurts! a break-up can be tough.
but please: don't let yourself down. Be your own best friend first. Be kind to yourself. Eat healthy food, excerise, try new things; try to create the best life for yourself with a lot of cool things. (even though you don't feel like it, push yourself to get out!, it's a good remedy to change ur life.
It's so important to love yourself, because a girl feels that when your life is all about her... She wants a guy with an exciting life himself without her carrying everything.
Wishing you the best ♥️
I don't know what to do.