How do i escape this painful relationship

it's 03h24 AM and my pillow is wet in tears, I've been staying with this man since 2024. I was groomed by him I was only 17 i am 21 now he is 12 years older than me , he successfully made my life about him , I don't have friends anymore im a bit distant from my family. He is not there for me in anyway I try my best to be seen but no effort is enough. I have a terrible headache cause he just hit me his phone was ringing I answered it was a girl I slapped him asked who that was he then hit me on the head. I hate myself because I can't leave i feel disgusted by my own self.

Last updated on:2026-07-14T08:01:37+05:30

Comments (7)

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 wks ago

you cant hate yourself.

Vyraxysss
Vyraxysss 2 wks ago

i remember thinking i had to be "ready" before i could leave. i never was

SweetAndHappy204

this is harder than it seems, people think im here because I chose to I feel like I don't know how to leave

Moh933
Moh933 2 wks ago

i was with someone who made my whole world so small that i forgot who i was without him. the first time he hit me, i still found a way to blame myself too. you're not disgusting for struggling to leave, i've been there.

SweetAndHappy204

how did you deal with the whole situation?

Chubunny
Chubunny 2 wks ago

i'm stuck on the part where he hit you. are you somewhere safe right now, or are you still in the same place as him?

SweetAndHappy204

I am safe now, been for hours. thank you.