I sent my abuser an official goodbye text. His brother also pissed me off. All his family will do will enable him and validate his sick version of what happened. I am so done but it hurts so much so deeply it's so raw. I hope what I said hurts him good tbh. I got tough love when I overdosed and it changed my life for the better. I hope he receives it too. He needs it and it's biblical. It wasn't until I lost everything that I gained it all back 10 fold just like Job. I feel like him for sure. Abuse is abuse no matter who does it. This cycle is still going to be hard to break with that being said. 💔
Last updated on:2026-07-15T23:36:41+05:30
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his family was never going to tell my story the way i lived it. i really hope you're talking to someone about this, not just us. after my own darkest moment, reaching out to a crisis helpline made a bigger difference than i thought it would.
i'm really glad you called it abuse, because that word took me forever to say out loud. was the goodbye text more for YOU, or are you still hoping he'll finally understand what he did?
it was for me this time
i sent one last message to my abusive ex too, then sat there hoping it would finally make him SEE it. the silence after hurt way more than i expected.
was definitely me with his brother. I know my ex wouldn't get it so I was hoping he would. his silence was devastating.