Why did he reveal his diaper fetish on my birthday?

last month on my birthday someone i trusted revealed a diaper fetish. i was shocked and uncomfortable but i didn’t know how to react and didn’t want to upset him.
he bought the diapers pressured me into wearing one and when i needed to use the bathroom he physically stopped me from leaving. i had to fight my way out and lock myself away just to feel safe again.
he broke up with me last week and i’m still trying to understand everything that happened. i ended up in the hospital after hurting myself and i’m struggling to even sleep in my own room now.
looking back i realize how much he took advantage of the fact that i always tried to please him and had trouble saying no. this was only one part of what happened and i’m still trying to heal from it.

Last updated on:2026-07-16T04:11:12+05:30

Comments (4)

Godzilladom
Godzilladom 1 wk ago

after i ended up hurting myself, i finally told someone everything instead of carrying it alone. i really hope you're talking to someone you trust, and if those thoughts come back

HotWaffles
HotWaffles 1 wk ago

has anyone in your life heard the full story yet, or have you mostly been carrying all of this on your own?

Yak3192
Yak3192 1 wk ago

had an ex who kept pushing past my boundaries too, and i spent months blaming myself because i froze instead of saying no. none of that made it okay.

Difficulty4
Difficulty4 1 wk ago

yea that’s not normal behavior and I’m sure it hurts now but you didn’t just dodge a bullet you dodged a missile. Like the diaper fetish is weird but whatever I guess people like what they like.