Just 3 days in no contact. the last time we texted was sunday morning. it feels like forever ago. he texted me that everything Will be alright, we should give it some time and that he will try to just read, paint and being with his family on the countryside. only 3 days, but my mind has been completely spinning. does he hate me? has he come to his senses and decided that it would never be us, ever, in the future? does he think of me? he said that he would miss me so much and think of me - but does he? i know that we have decided that it’s over, and we’re friends, but so many parts of me just wishes that he would reach out and ask me how i’m doing… even though it’s only been 3 days.
Last updated on:2026-07-17T13:03:38+05:30
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my first few days of no contact felt like a whole month, i kept checking my phone and making up stories in my head about what their silence meant. 💔
thank you for sharing.. that’s exactly how i feel right now. hope you’re ok!
i had to learn that silence after a breakup doesn’t always mean someone stopped caring. those first days are brutal, i tried to focus on getting through one hour at a time instead of trying to guess what was happening in their mind.
when he said you should give it some time and that he’d miss you, did it feel like he was trying to leave the door open, or more like he was trying to make the goodbye gentler?
maybe both tbh. but mostly like he was trying to make the goodbye gentler i guess