Everything ended in big tension. After a relathionship of 4.7 years, after he broke up with me like 13 times, cheated multiple times after he told me “I will never do it again”, isolate my emotions, tell me words like: fake, manipulative, stupid, you have no brain, you don’t understand, you don’t think.. And still I’m the one who said sorry over and over again, and feel like is all my fault just because I needed some emotional protection from him after all the lies (he was promising that to), after BIG TENSIONS between us because he wanted space and I wanted to fix everything, should I write a last fking message with “I’m really sorry” or let the thinks the way they are?
Last updated on:2026-07-18T01:27:46+05:30
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i wouldn't send another apology when you've already said sorry over and over again.
I didn’t 😌
what is making you feel like YOU have to apologize after everything he did, and i really hope you're talking to someone about this too, not just us, because four years of being cheated on and called those names leaves real scars.
thanks, I talk but…my heart is still heavy
stayed with someone who cheated, called me names, and somehow i still believed i had to be the one apologizing. i never sent that last "i'm sorry" message, because i realized i had already carried enough of the blame for both of us