i don't read his messages.
i miss him, but he doesn't really write. before day 1 i was writing him and begged him.
now? now i get one messages a day. 2x i love you good night, 1x how are you and yesterday he asked if i have somebody new.
i don't really understand? i am not even reading them and he still doesn't change his behaviour..
Last updated on:2026-07-24T00:44:11+05:30
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ignoring my ex’s messages hoping he’d finally realize he was losing me, but he stayed the same. that silence after begging for love really cuts deep.
hardest thing i accepted was that i couldn’t make someone show up by loving her harder. i stopped watching for the message i wished she’d send and started looking at what she actually gave me.
you think he’s reaching out because he misses you, or because he wants to know he still has a place in your life
Missing the person you love/loved is the most normal thing in the world. And you can’t turn that off like a switch. And from what you’re saying he writes, it seems like he still has a bit of love left himself. But I think the “do you have someone new”, is probably a way for him to calm his own thoughts. I felt the exact same way when I didn’t get answers in the beginning. But you have to continue to focus on yourself, and wether he continues to write, or stops. Only time will tell, you just have to focus on you.
yeah, but while i recovered from my surgery he couldn't care less about me. while i begged him to come back, he choosed to do some gaming and ignores me. i know he loves me, but I don't want to beloved just when I leave. and right now is the only love i get from him, when i go..
@Lumari If he didn’t show up when you had surgery, I’m not sure what kind of love that is. He might have the idea that he loves you, but if he didn’t show up in the hardest times..that might not be real love. But people tend to love what they can’t have, so when you leave he might get some feelings back, just please don’t let yourself get dragged into his emotionel mess.
Hope you choose yourself every day